Welcome to my page and my mission in life which is simple: to inspire women just like you to look good and feel fantastic, which in turn will help them to lead fulfilling and positive lives.
Please read on to find out why I am so passionate and committed to help you be better than ever in your life and help you become the person you want to be: confident, inspired, fearless and motivated to create the experience you deserve.
Women are incredibly good at focusing on the negatives: I hate my arms, my butt’s too big, my legs are too short and so on. We are not good at self-love, we are much better at self-deprecation.
Have you ever looked in the mirror and loathed your reflection? I have.
I’m not talking about that ‘my hair’s a mess I must book that hair appointment’ or ‘Great night but I’m too old for this’ feeling.
On a scale of 0-10 that would probably register around 2.
I used to kow that feeling so well.
When you look in the mirror a fat person stares out, none of your clothes fit – not because they’re too tight but because they’re falling off you even though they are size 4. The emotion, the frustration and inner pain that I’m referring to goes off the scale and damages your life in more ways than we can mention here.
Anorexia nervosa destroys self-confidence and self-esteem.
I suffered for over 20 years, but was one of the lucky ones. I gradually came to realise that perhaps it was me and the reflection that I was seeing wasn’t the right one. It took many false starts and enormous support from my family to come out the other side. What it’s given me is an acute sense of how awful someone feels when they loathe their bodies.
Once we accept that we have bits that we loathe and bits that are really worth emphasizing, we’re going to be in a much better place.
Why should we expect others to love us when we broadcast to others that we are not to be loved? How? If you suffer from self-confidence issues about your body, this is evident in our body language, our demeanour and very often in our choice of clothes.
We may as well hang a sign round our neck that states ‘please don’t love me’!!
How much easier do you find it to talk to people in a room if you’re feeling fantastic and you know you look great? You will radiate passion and positivity.
How this magnifies if someone pays you a complement – you will effervesce with energy!
Style is all about confidence. Admittedly it helps to have a few techniques in your armoury and to be a bit of an illusionist! But fundamentally it’s about showing off your best bits while downplaying the bits you hate!
My mission in life is simple, to inspire women to look good and feel fantastic, which in turn will help them to lead fulfilling and positive lives.
I will never claim that ‘I know how you feel’ but I can empathise with lack of confidence around your figure and the way you look. By sharing my knowledge and experience of personal styling and image consultancy I will help you to reclaim your self-esteem.
Take a look around and see what I can do to help you overcome your body confidence issues.
Big Hugs and I Look Forward to Meeting You Soon,